They say timing is everything — and Brandon and I needed a few practice rounds.

We passed each other in the high school halls — Brandon, the senior; me, the freshman. Same friends. Same circles. Same everything. Just not the same chapter.

Then came Texas A&M University. I did notice him there (there’s even a picture to prove it). Same bars, same house parties, same friend groups — we ran in the same circles, but it still wasn’t the right moment.

Fast forward to the same friends’ wedding. Brandon and I were paired together. We gave it a shot… but once again, timing wasn’t on our side.

A few years later, at the same friends’ kid’s birthday party — there he was. And I’ve said it at least 100 times — the man looked like a snack. This time? I wasn’t letting timing win.

After dropping several subtle-but-not-subtle hints to our friend Kate about what ol’ Stubbs was up to, I reached out. A couple of times. Because sometimes you just have to take matters into your own hands.

He says he “made me work for it.”

I say I knew exactly what I was doing.

He asked me out Memorial Day weekend to join him and some friends in POC. First official date the following weekend. And from that moment on — we were locked in. It was finally our time.

Turns out, we weren’t missing our moment.

We were just waiting for the right one.

And this time? We made it count.

Wedding Party